Bitchin' & Moanin' - Freely Vent, Complain, Rage, & Cry (No Judgement)

I love the name of this group 😅 personally looking at my past relationships i see from one to the other they ALWAYS catch me at a state of vulnerability. And it’s like i am telling myself NO trauma bonding… because normally they come right after the end of a previous relationship. I most times just want a genuine friend but it always goes deeper than that. I also love deeply and genuinely. Honestly ? How can i set better boundaries ? Has been a question for me for a while at one moment i‘m doing good and the next i find myself feeling bad for the overstepping of my boundaries.